Ceremony readings that aren't 1 Corinthians 13 (though that one's still good)
1 Corinthians 13 ("Love is patient, love is kind") has become the default wedding reading almost by momentum, chosen because it's what everyone else chooses. It's still a genuinely good reading, but there are plenty of others worth considering if you'd like your ceremony to feel a little less familiar.
Poetry
- "i carry your heart with me" by E.E. Cummings
- "The Sun Rising" by John Donne
- "Wild Geese" by Mary Oliver, for a less romantic-in-the-traditional-sense but deeply moving option
Prose
- An excerpt from "The Velveteen Rabbit" on what it means to become real to someone
- A passage from a novel or letter that has personal significance to the two of you specifically
Non-literary options
Lyrics from a meaningful song, read rather than sung, or a passage written by a family member specifically for the occasion, can feel more personal than anything pulled from an anthology, even a good one.
The reading matters less than who reads it
A reading delivered by someone who genuinely cares about you, even if their delivery is a little nervous, usually lands better than a polished reading from someone with no real connection to the couple. Choose the reader with as much care as the words themselves.
