Planning a proper kids' menu instead of just chicken tenders and fries

Chicken tenders and fries have become the reflexive kids' menu choice at weddings, safe but not particularly appealing to every child, and a slightly more thoughtful approach doesn't add much cost or complexity.

Ask your caterer about real options

Most catering companies already have a kids' menu beyond the default, mini versions of the adult meal, pasta with simple sauces, or a build-your-own approach (a mini pizza or taco bar). It's usually just a matter of asking rather than defaulting to the standard option.

Account for dietary needs among kids too

Food allergies are common among children specifically, and it's worth confirming with parents on the RSVP rather than assuming the standard kids' menu covers everyone.

Feed them earlier if possible

Children get hungry and cranky faster than adults waiting through a long cocktail hour. If the venue allows it, having kids served slightly ahead of the adult meal keeps them in a better mood for the rest of the reception.

A small activity table pairs well with this

Coloring books, simple puzzles, or a few small toys at a dedicated kids' table give children something to do once they've eaten, which indirectly makes the whole reception calmer for everyone nearby.