The wedding dress alterations timeline, and why it always takes longer than you think

The dress itself gets most of the attention in wedding planning, but alterations are where a lot of couples get caught out on timing, assuming a quick tailor visit a few weeks before the wedding will be enough.

A realistic timeline

• First fitting: 2 to 3 months before the wedding, once the dress has arrived
• Second fitting: 4 to 6 weeks before, after initial adjustments
• Final fitting: 1 to 2 weeks before, wearing the actual undergarments and shoes you'll wear on the day

Why weight changes matter

Stress, changed eating patterns, and exercise routines in the run-up to a wedding can shift body shape enough to matter for fit. Scheduling the final fitting close to the date, rather than months out, accounts for this rather than fighting it.

Complex alterations need more lead time

Adding sleeves, changing a neckline, or altering a heavily beaded bodice takes considerably longer than a simple hem and takes-in. Discuss any structural changes with your tailor as early as possible, not as an afterthought at the first fitting.

Bring the right shoes and undergarments from fitting one

Hem length depends entirely on heel height, and a strapless dress's fit depends on the exact bra or shapewear you'll wear underneath. Bringing these from the very first fitting, not just the final one, avoids a hem that's wrong by an inch on the day.